Hi
I need help!
4 week old (and a bit) DS is beyond frustrating. I've accepted that he won't sleep during the day -at all (fights it with every bone in his body) but night time is pushing me to breaking point.
We're on 3 hourly feeds (formula fed) during the day and he takes very little for his age (2-3oz). He looks like he wants more (sticking tongue out etc) but refuses the bottle once it's in his mouth (head shaking/fake sucking). Means a very cranky baby during the day.
Then we get to night. We started a routine of bath, bottle, cuddle and in bed for 7 (closer to 8-830 after fighting sleep and being shoogled to within an inch of his life). DH lets him sleep til 10.30-11, final bottle (2-3oz) then bed. He'll sleep fairly well (albeit noisily) til 2ish, then absolutely guzzles 4oz. He'll then crash for another 2-3 hours, guzzle another 3-4oz and then fall asleep.
Or so he would have us believe.
He'll go into his Moses basket (heated with a lavender scented hot water bottle-I know, I know...) and be asleep but within 20 min, he's asleep but straining, whimpering, crying and wakes himself up. Then that's is-from 530 I'm up ALL day as "sleep when he sleeps" doesn't apply with this baby.
Funny thing is, a week ago he was grizzly during the 530-830 period but slept. Now, he just point blank refuses. Ended up taking him to bed with me where he crashed and I sat up worried if suffocate him
He has terrible trapped wind and feeds take ages (he loses interest as 15m to burp just makes him sleepy) but I make sure I've got all the burps out before he's down so he's not in pain. Mattress is elevated and we have a white noise machine which emulates the beating heart.
Any suggestions? I've got severe PND and I need support!
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Inapickle123 · 18/02/2014 13:36
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