I wouldn't mind feeding to sleep if it worked, but last night it took an hour and a quarter for DD to drop off on the boob; the night before an hour and three quarters. She is 17 weeks and we aim (unsuccessfully) to have her asleep for the night an hour and a half after her last nap - roughly any time between seven and half eight. She has a bath, which she loves, then into the bedroom for a lying-down feed to sleep. We start this routine in good time, but the feed to sleep never takes less than 45 minutes and is driving me mad - I don't get to see DP, eat a proper tea or have custody of my nipples. Is there a better way to get her to sleep for the night? Or actually is this just how long it takes? She's mostly comfort sucking not swallowing, but delatching her sends her into a flappy rage.
I don't feed to sleep during the day - she is rocked to sleep with much resistant grizzling (which is getting worse), or marched out for a brisk walk in the pram or sling. I do this after about 90 minutes awake, and she never sleeps longer than 30 minutes. She definitely needs all the naps, though.
I'm reluctant to rock her to sleep for the night because of the grizzling - it feels like a miserable note to end her day on. I do keep hopefully putting her in the sidecar cot to self-settle, but I just get a crying overtired baby. I feel like I'm spending all day getting her to sleep, and I end up going to bed when she does as I'm knackered from all the walking and rocking. She's not a great sleeper at night, but I can live with that if I could just have a bit of the day without a baby stuck to me.
Please reassure me that either the epic feed-to-sleep is normal and will get better, or tell me what I'm doing wrong!
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Help - feed to sleep not bloody working!
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Phalarope · 03/02/2014 18:06
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