I'm at the point where I feel I'm actually going to go mad.
DS turns one next week. His sleep has, on the whole, been crap, though he has slept through a handful of times which has given me false hope.
His latest pattern is to wake up at a random time in the night, and half-heartedly cry and whinge for 1-2 hours.
Calpol, bonjela, even a breastfeed (occasionally and resentfully given, and which he hardly takes, as he's virtually weaned)- nothing will settle him. If we go in to him he calms down but then wants to play, and this carries on for ages until he eventually drops off with a hand on him.
Last night, with an ill 3yo to deal with and utterly exhausted, we just left him to it eventually, and he dropped off after a good while of carrying on. He wasn't and doesn't cry in an urgent/v upset way, it is just a sort of monotonous bellow, with long pauses which lull us into a false sense of security.
Tonight he woke at 8.15 and is still going. I'm doing controlled crying, popping in every few minutes, but tbh that just seems to rev him up.
I've no idea what to do. Don't want to co sleep and he wouldn't sleep anyway.
I am just so sick and tired of hearing the sound of him crying at night. He is wonderfully happy, bright and gorgeous in the day. But his night time antics are making me feel I cannot cope. My sleep feels so eroded, dp helps but we get tense with each other about it, dd gets woken up, it's just miserable. He is nearly one! He surely, surely should be sleeping better by now So fed up.
(Sorry about random sentence below, flipping iPad won't let me delete it)
Right now I am doing controlled crying. Going in every few minutes.
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okthen · 30/10/2013 21:10
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