Lately my DD (19wo) has become very unsettled in the early hours of the morning. She usually sleeps fairly well (well, in between pretty frequent feeds!) in a bednest beside me but in her unsettled moments only being held will do. As a result I have been bringing her into bed with me in a desperate bid to get some sleep. But I am worried because we are not set up for it.
She sleeps in a sleep suit or bundler or long sleeved vest plus 2.5 tog grobag. When I bring her in I usually have her head in the crook of my arm below pillow height. I tuck the duvet around me so she can't get under it but she's still lying against it iyswim. I have her on my outside so I am between her and DH. Neither of us are heavy drinkers but DH has often had one or two drinks the previous evening. (she generally comes into bed after 3ish am).
Does this sound safe enough? I don't have blankets so can't easily change our bedding but could buy some if people think its essential. How do others deal with the pillow situation? Is it ok to be actually cuddled up to DD with her head on my arm like this? And should I be taking her out of her grobag or does this sound ok?
I would like to know how other occasional co sleepers deal with these issues.
Thank you!
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ThumbsHaveGoneWeird · 23/04/2013 20:56
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