Help!
DD2 is a dreadful sleeper and has been since she started solids (undiagnosed dairy allergy caused the initial problem, which has now turned into habit).
On a good night she'll wake at midnight, 4 and 6, then up for the day at 7/7:30. On a bad night she wakes every couple of hours. She bf to sleep each time.
I've stopped bf to sleep at bedtime, but it takes up to an hour of rubbing her back before she goes to sleep (and sometimes taking her back up for another bf).
I'm shattered. I have about 5 weeks now when my mum is visiting where I have an extra pair of hands to help with sleep (although not so much the middle of the night stuff - mum & Dad are in the spare room which was DD2's room, and she is in with us now, and I don't think my DH would appreciate my DM wandering in in the middle of the night!)
I've tried various gentle methods but I think at 15 months old, DD is wise to them all, and likes the boob too much (trying to wean her from that too).
I need help. A step by step plan preferably that I can enlist Mum (and to some extent DH when he's not at work/on call) to help with.
Mum has promised to send DH & I out for a romantic dinner and/or trip to the cinema, but the way things stand it'll never happen.
I haven't had a full night's sleep in nearly 18 months. Please help!
(And please don't recommend straight CIO or CC. I know from experience on DD1 and from DD2's personality that it just won't work for us)
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Gentle methods not working can't do CC
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vvviola · 17/12/2012 06:54
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