Okay, maybe I sound a bit melodramatic but...
About 6 weeks ago DS got a cold and would only sleep in my arms, probably as it helped his bunged up nose. Since, he has been in our bed (which is huge.) But, gradually, he has become a lighter and lighter sleeper and now I spend a large part of my evening going up to him and laying down next to him / cuddling him / feeding him back to sleep. I realise that they need to learn how to sleep on their own, and before now he was fine - used to wake in the night, eat and then go right back to sleep in his own bed. Now, DH thinks he is 'trying it on' (this makes DH sound harsher than he actually is in RL) and we ought to leave him to cry. I can't do this, I cant, but we have come to the compromise of DH doing the 'gradual withdrawl' method so DS knows he is there, but is not going to be picked up and cuddled. I am hoping that eventually we can put him down, and he stays asleep, like he used to.
I don't agree with leaving DS to simply cry himself to sleep, and would find it close to impossible to do anyway, but I agree the current situation is getting out of hand so we need to do something.
Anyone had similar stories / situations and how did you, or are you, dealing with it....?
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babysaurus · 12/12/2012 19:46
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