dd is 11 months, and her sleep is not much better than when she was a newborn. We are tired. We want to share a bed again without a baby in it. She is breastfed and after a good start on solids isn't exactly stuffing food down. Her day looks a bit like this
wake 7/7.30
breakfast, play
breastfeed
nap 11.30-1
lunch
play
breastfeed around 3
dinner around 5.30-6
bath, breastfeed, bed by about 7/7.30
I know one nap isn't that much, but if we let her sleep later than about 3.30 it takes forever to get her to bed, and the afternoon nap was taking longer and longer to get her to settle for.
once asleep she will wake usually about 8, about 10 (later on a good night); around 3, around 5.30. It's rare for her to sleep longer than about a 4 hour stretch. She starts the night in her cot, but usually comes in with us (or just DP if I have fled to spare room) after midnight.
We talked to a sleep consultant who recommended 3 naps a day, and a method that involves putting her in cot, leaving her, counting to 10, returning and resettling, by picking her up if necessary. She gets very upset quite fast, but we haven't really put this plan into action yet because...
she has had a series of ear infections, and even now, although she has just finished a course of ABs is still tugging at her ears, poking her fingers in etc. When she wakes, she cries hard, as if something is hurting her.
I really don't know what to do - should we just get on and sleep train her? or wait until she seems more settled?
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what do you think we should do? 11mo to sleep train or not? (long, sorry)
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rhetorician · 06/11/2012 22:23
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