DS1 has never been a great sleeper but it's got worse since the arrival of DS2 a week ago. I know it's normal for this to affect sleep, but we're all suffering. He has been up for 1.5 hours in the night every night bar one since Sunday.
I used to co-sleep with DS1 whilst DH was in the spare room. However, DS1 wakes every time the baby does so he's now co-sleeping with DH in the spare room. The first night he was inconsolable when he woke, but since then he seemed to accept it (though he still woke). Last night DH had to come and hand him over to me though as DS1 was in a right state.
Daytime behaviour is pretty awful, with tiredness definitely being a big factor. Yesterday he asked for milk and tried to go to sleep at naptime which he hasn't done for several weeks. He dropped his nap about 2 months ago. I'm very loathe to let him nap as it means he doesn't get tired at bedtime till at least 10.30pm.
Normal bedtime is 8.30pm on non-nap days. After DS was awake for a 4 hour stretch the night I came home from hospital we were putting him to bed early but that's no longer working as he's now waking early.
DS2 cluster feeds from about 10ish to between midnight and 1.30am so between the two of them I have no hope of getting to bed at a reasonable hour.
DH suffers from insomnia and is enjoying co-sleeping but finding it very hard work. He isn't really able to help me with any of the other practicalities of adjusting to a new baby as all the time he can currently spare is taken up with DS1's sleep.
Any advice, other than that this too shall pass?
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How to stop 2.9 y.o. waking for long spells in the night
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AngelDog · 22/10/2012 07:40
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