Dd bf'd until she was 37m - there are many, many threads about me trying to get her to stop, especially her relentless night feeding, but the fact is, she is a, shall we say... forceful character, yes, that's it, forceful - and she broke me every time. Relentless screaming will do that to you.
That is over now, but you needed to know it because it was during this time that she developed the habit that plagues me still: on my chest are two moles, and because she used to touch them with her fingertips while she was feeding (ah, sweet), they are now her main comfort object. During the day, she comes frequently to sit on my lap, suck her thumb, and touch my spots. As I say, sweet. Lots of lovely cuddles.
BUT.
Not so sweet at 5am, which is when she's currently waking thanks to the bloody dawn bloody chorus (we're in Oz, please understand that it roars round the suburbs like a brawl between pissed-off goats and violent roosters, each armed with an air-horn). No. At 5am, she wakes, bellows for me (well she has to, to be heard over the bloody parrots), and then wants to touch my spots to get her back to sleep. Only she can't get back to sleep, because she's already had ten hours, the sun's peeping through the blackout blinds (stupid badly designed window) and what's more, her favorite person in the world is lying right there! So she rummages relentlessly around in my cleavage and bounces her fingertips off my bloody spots until I get snarly.
I've tried just going in and telling her it's too early, go back to sleep, and let her touch the spots for a minute (literally), before going back to my own bed - all that earns me is another bellow five minutes later. So guess what, now not only are she and I up, so is her brother - and he could really, really use the extra sleep. To be fair, so could dd - she is absolutely exhausted by midday, but we have failed napping too and I don't always manage to get her one (but that is another over-long post). Either way, it doesn't make a difference to the early-waking, only to how crabby we are. I mean, she is.
This is the one thing stopping me spending the children's inheritance on one of those sleep-trainer clocks: I imagine she'd just continue yelling, and anyway, it's not going to get her back to sleep, is it?
Short of having the bloody spots removed, I -- oh, pants, they've finished their show, and in the space of the last two sentences have asked me approximately five thousand questions, so I totally can't remember what I was going to say, or ask, next, which is probably just as well as this sleep-deprived rambling is probably boring you to pieces and anyway it's breakfast time. But if you have any good ideas, I'd be ever so grateful. I seem to have none of my own.
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Damn, appears I actually *have* made a rod for my own back - pls help me sort 3yo dd.
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phdlife · 09/10/2012 23:41
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