DS has just turned 6 months and his sleep is a disaster zone. I need want to sleep train him asap, and am prepared for a tough ride. I'd appreciate some advice on:
a) whether or not this is the right time (would it be easier / better to wait until he is taking more solids?)
b) how to go about it
I'm not totally against a controlled crying approach (I think), but do think this would be hard to do. The important thing for me is fixing the current situation...
So, to explain where we are:
- Daytime naps happen in one of three ways i) pushed to sleep in the pram ii) falls asleep in car, iii) suck my finger and is rocked / jiggled to sleep
- Night time... Is fed / jiggled to sleep at 7pm and placed in cot (going in the cot awake results in hysterical screaming). Sometimes wakes at 9pmish and is resettled with jiggling / finger sucking. Wakes at 11pm and is fed, then we co-sleep (which I really don't enjoy, and want to stop asap) as I can't get him back to sleep otherwise. Same at 3am, sometimes again at 5am. Woken at 7am by alarm clock....
I don't think he needs the night time feeds, but they were an easy way to get him back to sleep so I kept going with them. It doesn't work now, and I think the feeds are habit rather than need (but I can't be 100% sure). He certainly isn't starving (and sometimes not even hungry) at 7am.
So, what do you think? Is not the right time? Should I tackle everything at once (no feeds, own cot etc), or fight these battles one at a time?
Thanks in advance...