I'm only 14 weeks pregnant, but starting to think about stuff we need for the LO and how we want to handle things.
I was a real skeptic about co-sleeping, but have recently read Kate Evans' book the Food of Love (because it was recommended to me by a friend to learn more about breast feeding) and have to say that her piece on co-sleeping and pros of it really stood out for me as sensible and natural. My main objection to it before was a fear of lack of intimacy with DH, me not getting any sleep for fear of crushing LO and - and I think this is the biggie - worrying about when I might get my life /bed back.
Having discussed with DH he is definitely on board on the basis that ultimately in the beginning we may both get more sleep this way (not having to get up and down out of bed)... but we like the idea of at least having a co-sleeper cot like the bednest, so the baby maybe has slightly more of a feel for its own 'area' while still giving the option for him / her to be right in with us and hopefully to make the transition between our bed and nursery, when the time comes, easier.
So, my real question is: if you start co-sleeping what are the chances of being able to move baby more fully into his/ her own cot and ultimately room at some point in the 6-12 months mark? Does the fact that he / she has slept with you make it impossible to settle elsewhere? Or does the good start you've been able to give in terms of quality of sleep perhaps make it easier to gradually encourage them more and more into their own space? Are there other factors I haven't considered?
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BonaDea · 04/10/2012 16:25
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