DS2 19mo has gone from being a good sleeper (roughly 7.30 - 7.30 with a good nap in the middle of the day, he dropped from 2 naps to 1 about two month ago) to just being a total nightmare.
In a nutshell every nap is a battle and he is waking up earlier and earlier.
Yesterday he did not nap once despite being put down several times, once from falling asleep in the car which he always did with no fuss. We have tried leaving him to CIO, an hour and a half later he is utterly hysterical and no closer to being asleep. I have tried sitting in his room with my back to him (the hysterics stop but an hour later he is still bouncing around the cot chatting and talking). We have tried pick up/put down; ditto with the hysterics. A nightlight as he seemed genuinely upset at being taken to his room so I wondered if he was scared/worried about something? I realise that this is a huge developmental stage so teeth/asserting himself/brain going bonkers are all likely to be contributing.
At night he normally goes down with minimal fuss but we are now getting earlier and earlier wakings which follow the same pattern if you try and get him back off; hysteria,chatting etc and with a 4yo who has just started school nursery getting woken it just isn't working!!! I'm assuming he is now so over tired any attempt to get him to sleep is leaving all of us frustrated and angry. We have always been quite persistant with routines etc.
We haven't tried 'wake to sleep' to address the early wakings; I would be interested to hear opinions as it goes against every instinct but equally we are willing to try anything!
As for addressing the nap thing I'm genuinely out of ideas and cant believe he is ready to drop them at his age (despite still being happy and lively up until bed last night...again overtired???) If it helps then I have to pick up DS1 from school at 11.45 am so naps have to fit in with that and he is a willfull little bugger!
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bootus · 30/09/2012 07:45
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