OK dd2, charming baby, nearly 10 months, crap sleeper. Day goes a bit like this
7am wake
10ish nap - 1.5 h
lunch
3ish nap - 45 mins-1h
7.30-8 bed
usually wakes about 20 mins after going to bed, then at 11, then at 2, when she faffs about for about an hour, then around 5
We have spent the last week trying to make her sleep in her cot and to stop feeding to sleep - patting, shushing, rubbing her back, music. It is taking longer and longer to settle her - so it is now 10.25, she is crying, and we've been trying to put her down for nap for a bloody hour.
Leaving her to cry doesn't work either, even if we were able to do it systematically.
Should we just give this up as a bad job and go back to feeding her to sleep and having her in our bed (which I don't want)? Or is it too early for results yet? All we seem to have achieved is same amount of sleep and wake-ups but infinitely longer to get there...am fed up to the back teeth of this now - neither DP or I have had a full night's sleep in over a year. There is no reason that I can see for this - she just wakes up all the bloody time. Good job she is very charming otherwise I would have serious regrets about having had her.
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rhetorician · 28/09/2012 10:28
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