I'm working on a gradual retreat programme to help my 6mo DS2 learn (re-learn, he did this fine until about 4.4 months) to settle himself for naps and at night. It's going well - 4 days in and he's going down for naps, at bedtime, and during the night with me sitting by the cot with a hand on him (as opposed to feeding him to sleep). At no point has he become distressed.
I am NOT trying to cut out all night feeds, and do not expect him to suddenly sleep through the night. But, despite going in the cot awake, I haven't yet seen any reduction in the number of night wakings (roughly 3 hourly from 7 - 4ish, then hourly until about 7). I would like to cut down on night feeds - I don't think he needs to be feeding every hour in the later part of the night. And I'd like to be able to confidently go out for the evening (he won't take a bottle, so if he's hungry I need to be there).
I'm trying to work out what would be reasonable - 4 hourly feeds at night? He still feeds 2.5 - 3 hourly all day, mostly quite well, and we're BLW so I'm not relying on solids impacting on his appetite just yet.
I did a similar programme with DS1 at the same age, and from the moment he went in the cot awake (took longer as we had to work through the whole feed to sleep / rock to sleep / hold to sleep stages slowly) he just slept through or only woke once, so I didn't really ever have to think about how to deal with night wakings.
Any advice / suggestions welcome - I really would stress that I'm not trying to force him to sleep through, but just gently encourage him to sleep the longer stretches that he used to sleep a couple of months ago.
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Gradual retreat & night feeds - 6mo - what would be reasonable?
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nearlytherenow · 18/10/2011 13:44
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