13 week old DS has never been a good daytime napper, but things are just getting worse and worse and I think he is basically chronically overtired. He used to be lively and smiley between naps, and now he is just grumpy and glum most of the time. It's getting to the point where I feel that I can't take him anywhere as he will inevitably have a meltdown - this seems to be the only way he can get to sleep these days.
On a typical day he will fall asleep 4 times (up at 7, napping at say 9, 11, 2, 5, then bedtime between 7 and 8). One problem is the naps never last more than 40 minutes, and often as little as 10 - and I can see he is still tired afterwards. The other problem is how he gets to sleep: until a couple of weeks ago we had some success getting him to sleep in his cot and to settle himself for naps, but he just doesn't seem to be able to do this any more. If I spot that he's tired (yawning, rubbing eyes, etc) and attempt to settle him in his cot he just cries, and when I try to calm him and get him to resettle it just seems to wind him up even more; he ends up crying himself to sleep while I shush him or play him white noise. He will sometimes go to sleep without crying if I walk him around in his sling or the pram, but I am really exhausted with doing this (and it feels like I'm getting little out of it when I walk him around for hours to get him to sleep and his nap only lasts 10 minutes!!). Is there anything at all that I can do about any of this? Part of me thinks that I should just stop worrying about it and he will end up sleeping when he is really exhausted, but the other part thinks it's irresponsible not to intervene before he gets to the point where he is crying himself to sleep... Any tips on how to break the overtired-can't-sleep cycle??
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Daytime naps argggh!!
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Mamakath · 10/10/2011 16:58
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