We have started doing the 'gradual retreat' sleep technique with DS (3 nights so far), and he'll go in the cot wide awake after his feed, but tired, will take roughly 5-15 mins to eventually settle down with gentle rubbing of his back or tummy, and then shushing sounds, and then he'll just fall asleep (over past three nights it's been roughly 7.30pm). So far, so good. We're doing great with this technique, but....come 10.30pm,then 12.30-1am, then 3am, etc., he's waking up and I'm feeding him to sleep (I know, I know, it just defeats the whole purpose!) just because it keeps him quiet and I don't want him to wake his older sibling (DS won't take a dummy). I've cut out the two day time breastfeeds and he is now only on first morning and evening feed (plus those ones throughout the night!). He eats a varied diet throughout the day, sometimes with porridge (with full fat cow's milk) for supper on top of his three meals a day (two snacks inbetween). Wondering where I'm going wrong??
I'm looking for advice on this please. Does he really need these feeds throughout the night? I just feel enough is enough now. I need sleep!!!!
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14mo waking up at least 3 or 4 times each night still - anyone else BFing going through this??
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lovechoc · 02/10/2011 11:01
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