DS is 10 mo and still needs to be rocked / walked / swayed to sleep before we can put him in his cot.
He can sometimes be put down in the cot when he's very drowsy so all he does is turn onto his side to sleep.
OH won't stand and rock / sway him any more. He gets DS to sleep by sitting in a slightly bouncy chair that we keep next to his bed, bouncing the chair and holding DS quite tightly and holding his arms so he can't grab at hair etc.
There's usually a lot of wailing. To be fair, OH usually gets the bedtime shift and I think that might be harder.
I hate the wailing, so I am still ''walking'' him to sleep, he likes being held upright with his head resting on my shoulder, DS groans a bit but that's all - and then after a while he sort of wriggles round to lie in my arms. I then can just put him in the cot.
It's very tough physically - DS is about 10kg - I can just about do it.... AT THE MOMENT!!!!
For both me and OH it takes about 20 mins at least to get him to sleep at bedtime (maybe that's not that bad?!). For naps during the day it varies.
When he goes to a CM in about 2 months, he won't get this rocking to sleep as she won't have time, and I worry about how he will react.
On my HV's advice, we tried one night to put him in his cot before all the rocking and just sit nearby and pat his tummy, but it didn't work, he just kept pushing our hands away.
As you might guess, I can't imagine doing controlled crying. I just kind of feel it's cruel to let them cry. I think it must be frightening for them to be left to cry if they're not used to it.
Will he just grow out of all of this? I mean, people don't do this rocking with toddlers, do they????
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how to wean DS off being rocked to sleep?
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fireflyz · 13/09/2011 19:02
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