I have posted before about our DD's terrible sleep. We decided to do some sleep training: we just put DD awake into her cot after a feed, lay next to her (it's a bedside cot) and sang to her, a bit of patting, until she went to sleep. Same for every waking. This worked as it meant DH could help (until then I was doing every waking as she won't take a bottle) and it also reduced the wakings from every 30mins-1 hour to every 4-5 hours.
We're doing exactly the same thing but now she just won't go to sleep. She screams and screams while we lie next to her, patting her tummy and singing songs. We've tried Calpol in case it's teething, winding her but basically the only thing that will settle her is bf-ing her. Tbh, I could manage that BUT she basically wants my boob in her mouth the whole time - if it falls out, she wakes up and screams again.
DH is adamant that we shouldn't let her fall asleep on the boob and I'm inclined to agree, simply as it doesn't actually result in decent sleep for her. But the only alternative seems to be her screaming and screaming for hours, and that can't be good for her either.
She is fine during the day - happy, eating well, engaged and much more content than she used to be. I'm pretty sure she's not teething, particularly given that a dose of Calpol makes no difference (and it has before when she was teething).
Does anyone have any experience of this? Should I bf her and resign myself to no sleep at all, just to save her from getting so upset? Is it cruel 'allowing' her to cry like this? I just don't know what she wants or how to soothe her.
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Is letting our 6mo cry (but staying with her) cruel? Not sure what to do.
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Birdsnotbees · 12/09/2011 21:38
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