Hi MNers :)
My DS is nearly 10 weeks, and currently, he sleeps on me. He never liked his moses basket, and so from early on the best way I found for us both to get sleep was to do it like this, and it's just stuck. Mostly, we do sleep pretty well with him waking up usually twice a night for a feed, which of course is a doddle and barely wakes us as he's so close.
As time's gone on I've started to worry that I should have tried harder to get him to sleep without me. I bought a travel cot with bassinet which is next to my bed - I've only tried him in it once so far but he only managed one 40 minute stretch and then I couldn't resettle him in it again that night, so back to my bed it was.
I admit, I haven't tried very hard since he was about maybe 5 weeks to get him to sleep elsewhere, I think deep down I like sleeping with him, it's lovely to have him right there. The thing is, I wonder if I'm making a mistake in still doing this and not getting him used to his cot? Eventually he'll be too big to sleep on me (he doesn't sleep next to me on the bed either, only on me).
Will it be a nightmare to get him to sleep anywhere else? Have I left it too late? Should I just bite the bullet and keep trying him in the cot? I feel like perhaps it's me being selfish keeping him in with me as it's easier! I'm a new mum, and often feel like I'm doing stuff wrong, so please help!!
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JeewizzJen · 06/09/2011 08:38
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