I'm sure this has been done to death, but I am struggling a bit with how to get DS (6 days old) to lie on his back to sleep whilst co-sleeping with me. All the co-sleeping literature goes on about how the nice thing is you can just lie down and BF and drift off to sleep, which I agree is the big benefit, but I find that DS will then only happily go off to sleep if he can lie facing me on his side with one arm tucked under his head. He resists being turned away from me and wants to latch back on and we go through the whole feed to sleep cycle again and again! Since he can't easily roll onto his front and would actually just roll into me if he moved (I'm sure I would wake up if he did this, as I seem to be in a light sleep and very sensitive to his movement), this seems safe, but even the co-sleeping literature sternly warns it is safest for baby to be on their back. Does anyone actually achieve this whilst co-sleeping and if so how??!
I co-slept with DD (now 4.5) from when she was about 3 months, and just used to turn my back to her when finished unless I actually fell asleep whilst she was latched on. I wasn't so worried about her position as she was older and felt much more robust.
Also, how do you cover little ones and ensure they can't wriggle under? DS is not quite 8 pounds so not big enough for a baby sleeping bag yet. I am just tucking a light blanket under him given the hot weather, and obviously keeping my duvet well away from him, but does anyone have any other tips?
Any thoughts appreciated!
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Confused about how to achieve advice to lie baby on back if co-sleeping
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lilysma · 31/07/2011 20:47
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