My dd has started screaming for up to 30 mins when I try to put her to bed for her nap and in the evening.
I'm pretty sure she still needs a day time sleep as she will often naturally fall asleep around 11.30 / 12 if we are in the car or in her bike seat. Unfortunately, she can't go to sleep then as this is exactly the time I have to pick up her big brother from nursery. When I try to get her to sleep later, she screams, throws books, lies on the floor wailing, jumps up and down in a frenzy etc. This can go on for up to 30 mins. When she eventually goes to sleep if left, she will stay asleep for 1 1/2 hours.
Then in the evening the same rigmarole ensures. I've cut down her daytime nap by almost a half as I wondered if she was just getting too much day time sleep, but this hasn't seemed to have changed the shouting at bed time. We have normal bed time routine (bath, story, cuddle, bed) which she has had pretty much since birth.
Any form of gentle controlled crying (e.g. going in every min or so) seems to enrage her and make her even worse. Today, after 30 mins of hysteria with me trying to calm her down, I just left her and after 10 more mins of full on shouting she went to sleep. I guess I could do this, but am looking for any more ideas. Am not that keen on CC in it's hard core form.
She is also mid separation anxiety (have tried sitting in a room with her, not giving any attention, sometimes this works, sometimes makes it worse) and has many stormy tantrums for such major events as being put in her buggy, having to wear a bike hat, having to hand over a bag etc.
Any ideas gratefully received.
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21 month old dd bloody furious about being put to bed. Any ideas?
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neolara · 23/06/2011 14:50
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