17 month old dd has 'interesting' sleep habits and DP and I are about to a. lose the plot, b. lose our jobs and c lose our relationship if we don't get some sleep!
The problem is she either goes down ok at 6.30/7 pm but then wakes at 11ish and is then up off and on till about 4am, or she goes down at 6.30/7ish wakes up screaming 20 mins later and then screams and screams (with us holding her, rocking her etc etc) until about midnight when she then sleeps till around 5am.
I have an older dd and did a shush pat method with her, but dd SCREAMS and I mean SCREAMS. We've left her tops about 5 minutes because she just doesn't stop screaming. If you go in and try shush pat it makes her even more angry and she goes mental. Even after 5 minutes of being left sobs will be racking her body for the next 30 mins at least.
So, if you do do shush pat with a baby like this how long should you be leaving them to cry? I hate doing it and really dont want to but neither of us can cope anymore with the lack of sleep.
I wouldnt mind cosleeping but when we try taking her into our bed she just screams more and more.
We live in a semi so are very conscious of the neighbours. We've now got to the point where DP is taking her out in the car every night to get her to sleep but she just wakes up when he brings her back. She had reflux but is on lanzropole so it definitely isnt that. Shes also not hungry, she just seems to want to sleep but be fighting it and gets really annoyed when she can't.
Any suggestions please, please, please
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BrianAndHisBalls · 20/06/2011 13:16
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