Hi there,
I'm a first-time mum and am constantly questioning I'm doing the right thing. My three-and-a-half month old baby girl has three naps (around 35 mins each) a day.
I put her in her cot and allow her to self settle, but she cries for anywhere between 5-15 minutes before she falls asleep. She's usually up from her final nap of the day by 3.30pm and I put her to bed at 7pm. At bedtime (7pm) she becomes quite inconsolably upset (not like at nap times) and really works herself up.
I've tried leaving her, picking her up, going in to sooth her with tummy rubs, hair stroking etc, but she seems to need to cry it out in order to sleep at night.
Evenings are incredibly stressful and leave me feeling like I'm a bad/heartless mother. Having no experience and nothing to compare it to, I don't know what's normal. She seems a happy little thing in the day, lots of smiles and interaction, but I worry that leaving her to cry might be doing her some psychological harm.
I'd really welcome any tips and advice on what's normal....
On a slightly different note, I am considering hanging a mobile above her cot - is this a good idea, or will it distract baby from sleep?
Thanks in advance,
Apple Orchid x
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AppleOrchid · 01/06/2011 12:40
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