But am beside myself with frustration. 8 month old S (he doesn't deserve the D in front of it this morning) started waking frequently at night and SCREAMING for up to an hour. It doesn't seem to make a difference whether we pick him up or not or if we're in the room with him. Last night I tried to do some CC but cracked at about 5am and brought him into our bed. I'm really miserable because he'd been sleeping through the night and we went through a sleep clinic and several painful weeks to get him to do this. I really thought we were home and dry. He's been poorly in the past couple of weeks but is better now - very perky and spritly in the day. Am confident that he's not still feeling unwell so happy to do CC.
I realise that this may sound like blasphomy to the purer elements of Mumsnet but I'm the sort of person who NEEDS their sleep. I do get really depressed and down without it. I've started to feel really resentful towards him again, something I thought I'd got over once he started sleeping through. Obviously this makes me feel like complete shit as what sort of a mother can I be that resent their baby for just being a baby. I'm clearly missing some sort of chip that makes you love your child no matter what. We had a very difficult start with him being in hospital and critically ill for the first 3 weeks and think this has affected how I feel about him longer term. My friends with babies all talk about when they have another one but at this stage the thought of having another baby makes me feel sick. SOrry about the ramble but I guess my questions are:
- Is there some sort of 8 month sleep regression I don't know about?
- Does anyone else resent their baby because they don't sleep or am I completely devoid of maternal instinct?
- Should I try CC again? WOrked before