DD is 7.5 months old. Up until about 15 weeks she seemed to make slow but steady progress in going longer between feeds at night but since the 17 week growth spurt she's been much more random and despite having a regular routine in the day she's never developed a good pattern of night sleeping.
All the advice says that it's about removing "bad" sleep associations, don't feed to sleep, that she needs to put herself to sleep etc etc. So a few weeks ago I started to try and break her feed to sleep association.
Here's the thing though - on the few occasions she's dropped off without feeding, it's not had any positive effect on her night sleeping at all. In fact last night she fell asleep for the first time with no intervention on my part whatsoever, not even me stroking her head - and was up 5 times needing reassurance, rocking, feeding etc.
On the other hand, I've fed her to sleep plenty of times and had much better nights. On a particular day last month she fell asleep having fed to sleep (and fed to sleep for her naps, too) and slept 11 hours!
I often hear her wake and resettle herself in the night. On the other hand, she often wakes and needs feeding, too! I can tell by her noises which way it's going to go.
Ok this is becoming an essay, sorry - my point is that I am not completely convinced by the received wisdom on this and I feel that maybe this is just a developmental stage for her and she'll sleep when she's ready? Also I think sometimes she is just genuinely hungry.
I am getting weary of never knowing when or how many times I'll be up in the night tbh but not sure what I want to do about it!
Anyone have any experiences to share - did you feed to sleep and just find your baby adjusted eventually - or do you HAVE to intervene and teach them to fall asleep...I've been told to do CC but won't consider this till she's at least 12 months and tbh don't think I could carry it through.
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All the sleep training advice seems to boil down to the same thing but I'm getting a bit sceptical...any advice?
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GoldenGreen · 10/01/2011 19:39
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