Hi all,
Will keep this short, DD is 25 weeks, very happy, content with no underlying problems, but hasn't napped more than 30 mins at a time since she was about 8 weeks. She currently wakes around 3 - 5 times a night, and can be a nightmare to get to sleep. I have obsessed about it all day, read every sleep book in the library, and sat in the dark at 3am sobbing cause I am so tired! Have also just let it be at times to see if it sorts itself out - but no luck. I go back to work in 4 weeks, and am dreading the lack of sleep at night and worried she wont nap for a childminder. Sooooo, this is my plan...
Getting her up at 8am every morning, and in bed well before 8 so she is asleep by then(can take an hour or more for her to actually be asleep)
Regular naps - at 10am, 1pm and 4pm. going to try cot for some and buggy for others.
Tire her out with swimming, baby and toddler groups, fresh air etc most days.
At nght, do the same routine to get her to bed - feed, bath, massage, bed with music box and lots of patting etc. at the moment Dh is unable to settle her, she just screams and screams, because she wants the boob - hope feeding her before bath will help distance this from sleep so I can leave the house at some point before she is 18.
At night, not feed her to sleep, make sure she is off the boob while still sleepy. (have been doing this for a while, know she can self settle, have seen her do it!)
Try settling without a feed if it has been less than 2hrs since the last one, i.e cuddles, patting, rocking. this is the one I worry about, dont want to deny her food if she needs it, but sometimes she just isn't hungry, but snacking all night means she takes more then than in the morning.)
Try and tail off the rocking and patting to sleep as she seems ready, so eventually hopefully DH can settle her back to sleep.
Any thoughts? anyone care to join me for support, or to post their own plans to make things better (I know I have a snowball in hells chance of changing anything, but need to try something!)
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holytoast · 05/10/2010 09:40
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