DD is 13 mo. Sleep has never been good, since around 4 mo, but really is getting worse and worse. Yesterday/ last night/ today is a typical example. Nap yesterday from 9.15am till about 10.45. Attempt to get her to nap around 2pm. Tried for an hour and gave up. Bed and asleep at 6.15 (unusually easy to get to sleep) then woke at least once an hour until 3am, sometimes needing BF to get back to sleep. 3am - 5am awake, with me trying to get her to sleep. Up for the day at 6.30am. 9am - just now, 10.30 trying to get her to sleep. Seems like I've spent the whole morning, well I have, trying to get her to sleep, meaning she's had no chance to play or do anything else!
Some days she'll nap happily at 9am and 1pm, or one or the other. Most nights recently it's been taking till 8pm to get her to sleep, despite starting bedtime at 6pm. I've been trying really hard to make sure we're at home for most naps and have been working, for the last two weeks or so, on trying to get her into her cot awake (had mostly been falling asleep in my arms then transferred to cot). DH is working long hours with little time off so I've moved a mattress for me into DD's room to interrupt his sleep less.
She wants to go into her cot, but once there can't fall asleep. She really, really wants to hold onto my clothing while she falls asleep and gets angry when I try to move away. I've tried for months to introduce a comforter but they make her either excited (and so wake up more to play with it) or really angry (so throws it furiously out of the cot).
She sucks her thumb and does seem to be trying to go to sleep.
Sorry for the ramble, I don't even know what I'm asking. Just in floods of tears after so many broken nights. Need to do a job application now, that's why I was so desperate for her to sleep. How I'll manage to go to work with sleep like this, I don't know.
She is otherwise totally adorable, busy and bright and walking well.
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belindarose · 19/09/2010 10:36
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