Can i suggest a few tweaks for OTBT?

[DanceInTheDark]

Sorry if that is rude.

Why do they get deleted 30 days from the OP? What if people are still posting on it? Can it not be 30 days from last post?

Can i have the option to opt in to have it show on my active conversations?

[HelenMumsnet]

Hello. Sorry to be a while answering you.

The opt-in option is already on the Techs' to-do list. We'll let you know when that's up and running.

About the 30 days thang: the idea of OTBT was that it was a place for people to go to if they wanted to talk about something quite private for a little while - with the reassurance that the convo would disappear fairly sharpish.

It wasn't really created as a place to have long-running threads in.

[DanceInTheDark]

Ah right, thanks for the explanation Helen.