Am I being un-reasonable

[AlexCookie]

So my partner has offered to pick up his friend because she doesn't like driving. However it's like a V shape. 40 minutes to pick them up, followed by another 45 minutes. When they could just drive themself saving 1hr 20 minutes.

I think he is being an enabler and allowing her to avoid driving. He says she is anxious about driving. However I think not encouraging her to drive she can't grow as a person and build her confidence.

He says it's a one of but I think this will start a trend.

Am I being unreasonable.

[Rachelthegreat]

I’m with you, if she has a licence, use it. The only way to increase confidence is to go and do

Are they genuinely just friends? Could it be an excuse to spend time together?

[MissCruellaDeVil]

This should be in AIBU, you would get a lot more traffic for a start. It sounds like an excuse for them to spend time together. Does she have a vehicle to use?

[Rocktheboat56]

Thanks guys, in the end it seems the reality has sort of pushed her to drive more. So it appears to be working out. I guess many years of not having to leave her home town have suddenly been changed.