Hi I'm 45 and haven't had sex for nearly 10 years!!
I have let plenty of men - both
In real life and online - but most of them want sex before even going on a date.
Most recently a male friend I liked came round to my flat to visit a few times. He never once asked me out on a date but
Instead thought it was ok to start feeling my bum when I got up off the sofa to make him a coffee. I told him to p!ss off.
Then another guy who I'm friends with on FB and is a tradesman who has done work in my house a few times started sending me sexy messages and asking for nude pictures. When I suggested meeting for a coffee instead he said he wouldn't be available for 5 weeks as he was too busy.
This is just 2 examples of what I'm on about. If a man behaves like this then it just turns me off and things never move forward.
Am I old fashioned? Is the only way to get a man these days to put out first?
Sometimes I despair 😩
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Am I old fashioned for wanting to date before sex?
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Heidi3333 · 02/11/2020 15:47
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