Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice.
I've been with my DP for about a year and our sex life has been great. Over the last month or so there's been a few occasions where he's not been able to climax. The first couple of times we were able to get him there by masturbating together but the last time it happened, he wasn't able to even get himself off.
I don't think he's gone off sex with me because he still initiates, he doesn't lose his erection and still seems to be really into it during. He seems frustrated that this is happening. I know he does masturbate and use porn as he's told me and it doesn't bother me because I do too. We don't live together so I think that's normal. He says he thinks because it happened the first couple of times it's in his head now that he won't be able to cum and during sex he starts to worry it's going to happen again so inevitably it does. And he says he's worried that it will hurt my feelings.
I've reassured him that I'm totally fine, I know he loves and fancies me and my only concern is that I want him to be satisfied too. I've asked if there's anything different he wants to try that he thinks would get him there etc but he says no. I'm open to some kink but he's pretty vanilla and says no he enjoys the "normal" sex that we have.
I suppose I'm just wondering if anyone's had a similar experience and how you managed to solve the issue. I'm keen to not let it turn into a big thing because I know that will make it worse if he feels stressed about it.
Thanks in advance!
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dazzlinghaze · 31/10/2020 11:34
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