Do vaginas feel different ? Q for men!

(22 Posts)
viixie Thu 08-Oct-20 14:15:28

I've always wondered, do different women's vaginas feel different when you are having sex or do they all feel the same ? 🤣

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GoodQuestionPoster Thu 08-Oct-20 14:49:44

The short answer is yes they do... but don't take that in any way as a negative.
A particular vagina can feel different on different occasions - I suspect that it varies throughout the course of a month but there's also levels of arousal (on both sides), amount and texture of lubrication, even the type of topiary around the entrance.

If you extrapolate that further to then different vaginas then the same principles apply as anatomy varies. What I can most definitely confirm is that each one I've encountered has been great in its own way.

Mooselaurels Thu 08-Oct-20 14:49:58

Yes they feel different! I'd say enjoyment is more influenced by the woman they're a part of, rather than just what I'm sticking my dick in though.

noego Thu 08-Oct-20 16:10:57

The flesh on the inside of your mouth is the same flesh as the inside of your vagina.

Otterhound Thu 08-Oct-20 17:03:44

They do feel different yes.

Happyhusband Thu 08-Oct-20 17:07:51

Yes. But they all love the same standard of care and attention to detail once their owners consider you worthy enough to get so close.

Sparkybloke Thu 08-Oct-20 18:29:27

Yes.....but they are all perfect!


fineokthen Thu 08-Oct-20 20:49:16

I get told mine is wetter than others . Is this a positive or negative ?

Sparkybloke Thu 08-Oct-20 21:25:43


BackToTheCaveman Thu 08-Oct-20 21:50:21

I always laugh when women talk about the size of mens penises, because it never seems to occur to them that womens viginas vary in size as well. Also the shape differs, and the lubrication. Then there's that thing inside that I keep bashing in to.

PussGirl Thu 08-Oct-20 23:03:02

Mine changes, according to DP: sometimes tight, sometimes very tight, sometimes more open, wet or wetter, or slipperier, or smoother, or more convoluted, or spongier, or deeper, sometimes with a nasty prickle from my IUD (fortunately mostly not), different before or after orgasm etc etc and he loves the variety.

To me it feels the same every time, as in I can't tell it's any different for him at all - I get lots of different sensations, according to the factors mentioned above smile

Whatliesbeneath707 Fri 09-Oct-20 11:01:22

I know this doesn’t quite answer your question, but visually they vary massively too. I’m a nurse who has done lots of smear tests and i was really surprised by how different vaginas can look - the cervix can be in different positions, obviously the size of the vagina varies too. The texture can be different at different times of the month and this can then also change over time as the lady heads towards the menopause and oestrogen levels fall. Those text books really aren’t telling the truth!
It’s great to hear that all the chaps approve of the variety too 😂

TooTrueToBeGood Fri 09-Oct-20 11:48:26

Yes they do, but it shouldn't matter. Intimate relationships are about so much more than the size, shape and nuances of genitalia. I'm quite sure there are men who have an aversion to a particular size of breast, a particular type of vagina and details like pubic hair topiary but the answer to that is to avoid relationships with shallow eejits and find yourself a partner who sees you and loves you holistically and cares more about the person than the ever-changing body they are wrapped in.

cosmicbabe Fri 09-Oct-20 21:37:58

What about taste and smell?...

Anotherblokelurking Fri 09-Oct-20 23:17:57


I get told mine is wetter than others . Is this a positive or negative ?

DW sometimes gets very “wet” - she hates it But it feels good to me and PIV lasts longer.

Anotherblokelurking Fri 09-Oct-20 23:24:26

Like breasts and penises, they are all the same but different - look, feel, texture, taste, tightness, slackness, ease of entry, tightness of entry. They are all unique and they are all gorgeous.

Otterhound Sat 10-Oct-20 16:35:32

Yep, taste/smell changes over the month a bit but some women definitely have stronger odour than others but it is broadly similar

TheWhalrus Sat 10-Oct-20 19:20:28

Yes...they do feel different. And, to add something more here, my GFs feels different after childbirth than before. Sort of makes sense (to me at least) that things moved around a bit after something as large as that came through.

safeordangerous Sat 17-Oct-20 14:45:31

Like has been said the same and different. Maybe Im lucky but Ive had partners where there's always been a good feel, Ive not felt like thr vagina is to big. I think Im about average size wise.
I think what is more important is the position when you have sex. Can feel a lot tighter in some positions or if lady is on top the pressure can help with orgasm (for both).

Going off at a tengent but is anyone else miffed by the new lockdowm measures. In September finally managed to get down to business with new partner after a covid dry spell only so be scuppered again! (I say this partly tongue in cheek given the seriousness of the pandemic)

zarek Sat 17-Oct-20 19:05:47

I think the whole clown's pocket thing is a bit of misogyny. It's always going to be good. Main problem is any unfortunate need for condoms

PunkStrumpet Sat 17-Oct-20 20:20:17

"Clowns Pocket" is in the same space as spotty schoolboys talking about "fishy fanny" etc. i.e. losers that have never been near one but talk a good game (apparently).

safeordangerous Sat 17-Oct-20 20:22:05

When it comes to sex I think blokes get a bit of a raw deal in the sense they need to be of at least a decent size and ahem able to perform (I'm obviously talking about normal relationships here where there's no abuse etc).

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