I gave birth 11 months ago. Delivery was quite traumatic with forceps, cuts and tears (TMI sorry!)
Anyway, me and my partners sex life has never really got to how it was since having our baby. I breastfeed too so unsure how much impact that has on libido and have limited sleep due to baby waking frequently through night each night.
I don’t ever feel like having sex. I don’t ever feel turned on or think about sex. We have sex every so often but I feel almost like I’m doing this as it’s the right thing to do.
I can’t bare my bits being touched at the moment. If my boyfriend tries to touch my clit I guide his hands away. I don’t want to tell him I can’t cope with being touched there as I don’t want him to think it’s him or anything he’s doing.
I’m assuming this is all in relation to birth etc. But I just want to know, am I on my own in this situation or has anyone else experienced this? How did things improve?
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No sex drive since birth of baby
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Stargirl2707 · 12/09/2020 21:08
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