Forgotten how to initiate...

(8 Posts)
Nibor1991 Fri 04-Sep-20 21:19:50

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OhioOhioOhio Fri 04-Sep-20 22:00:43

Speak to him?

Isadora2007 Fri 04-Sep-20 23:15:46

Ummmm touch him? Shower together? Text him to suggest making time for it? Build a bit of anticipation?
Personally I often initiate with oral- as it’s lovely to have a soft penis to start with... enjoy!!!

topcat2014 Mon 07-Sep-20 22:29:40

@isadora fairly sure most blokes would get the hint at that point

mellowww Tue 08-Sep-20 06:12:52

Grab him?

EvenMoreFuriousVexation Wed 09-Sep-20 03:20:31

Wait til you are able to have sex immediately (ie dc1 in bed)
Say "you know earlier when you [xxx]? It's made me really horny! Wanna come to bed?"

Bbub Mon 14-Sep-20 00:01:09

I think if you want to avoid coming right out and saying "let's fuck" (or whatever!) you can set the tone really easily by the way you kiss, touch or look at someone. Ideally a bit of all three! Like a little moan while you're kissing or putting your hand suggestively high up on his leg while giving a flirty look or something??

If you think he's going to taken by surprise and not read you properly you might have to throw in a few words at first, or maybe talk in general and say you'd like to get things a bit more back on track


Arnoldthecat Wed 16-Sep-20 18:09:44

i dont think the average man needs much of a hint...just be a bit bolder..

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