I’ve had fairly limited experience of men - lived with my bf when young for a few years, then a long term marriage with the next man, then love of my life who I had to break up with, then recently tried dating a bloke but am giving up on him (for various reasons). 3/4 of them (all but the first) tried to hustle me along to bed.
I like sex just fine, it was epic with the love of my life, but for the most part I need to trust the man first. Recent fella is over 65 (just over 10 years older than me), we’ve been on 5 socially distanced walks and he said he’s “never been this patient”! 5 dates without sleeping together does not feel like deprivation to me, I feel I’m just getting to know him (this + that he’s told me he probably just wants fun, which I translate as meaning sex, has put me off him).
As I said, I don’t have much experience, but I find this sad. For me, especially at my age, I’d like to get to know someone first and wonder if most of them try to accelerate things or if I just don’t appeal to more domesticated types?
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Ritascornershop · 17/05/2020 04:21
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