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Quicky Sex & Orgasm

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cosmicbabe · 07/05/2020 17:33

Now it takes me ages to orgasm so if we have a quicky I'm happy to not cum. Is this the norm or can woman cum quite quick also in this scenario?...

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Littlemix1 · 07/05/2020 18:21

I'm the same I don't mind so much when a quickie. I personally can't cum with just a quickie and no foreplay. Whether everyone's the same I can't say

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MadamShazam · 07/05/2020 19:06

It depends how turned on I am tbh. A quicky for us always includes a quick bit of foreplay, if I cum, great, if not thats ok too 😊

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PrawnSacrifice · 07/05/2020 20:13

Here's a question regarding quickies..... what do you do about lubrication?

Or do you get wet enough for penetration within seconds of knowing it's on the cards seconds?

(You can tell I've never had a quickie)

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Littlemix1 · 07/05/2020 20:51

@PrawnSacrifice for me I get quite wet once I know it's on so never a problem

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MadamShazam · 07/05/2020 21:26

We always have lube on hand, though don't always need it.

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PrawnSacrifice · 07/05/2020 21:35

@Littlemix1

Fair play, I've never experienced a woman go from zero to ready in such a short space of time.

In my experience, the very first few sessions of a new relationship are great, feels like someone's cracked and egg open down there.Then over the following months when the novelty wears off, it generally takes longer and longer to reach sufficient arousal for penetration.

In LTRs, I find it requires loads (20-30mins+) of foreplay before PIV would be possible without discomfort.

Hence I'm intrigued by the concept of a quickie (in the context of a LTR).

But I guess if some women can get so aroused so quickly at the prospect of sex.....

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Littlemix1 · 07/05/2020 22:25

@PrawnSacrifice I suppose everyone is different. Hopefully for me it won't change but nothing wrong with having to throw in some lube every now and then if needed

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PrawnSacrifice · 07/05/2020 22:51

@Littlemix1

I would if the passion/desire was there and it was just wetness lacking.

I think it's just general lack of desire and not feeling horny that's the issue. Adding lube in that situation is a bit meh.

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Littlemix1 · 08/05/2020 00:12

@PrawnSacrifice aw well that's a shame. Hopefully in time it's something you can get back. Yeah your probably right there. But hopefully summat you can build to get back

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Osirus · 09/05/2020 01:13

I’m another one ready to go as soon as I know it’s going to happen (and we’ve been together 14 years so it’s not reduced for me over time). I do sometimes wonder if it bothers my DH that he doesn’t have to “try”, but he seems pleased about it Grin.

I can finish very quickly but have only had a few quickies in our time.

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isitsummertimeyet · 13/05/2020 10:39

managed a quickly on Monday, the wife never goes for rudes if kids are about but both were downstairs preoccupied with playing, i had gone for a rest on my bed for 5 minutes when she popped up, usually sex for us is 30 mins or so, but this was literally all done and dusted (with her orgasm) in under 10 minutes. :O

doesnt happen often

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PrawnSacrifice · 13/05/2020 12:33

Envious ^

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PrincessPain · 24/05/2020 16:12

DH finding me sexy and seeing him hard just for me is all it takes for me to be wet and ready 😳 we've been together 11 years, and it hasn't waned or faded over time.

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