Not sure how to word it, I don’t mean multiple orgasms during one session, but do you cum each time you have sex?
I don’t and it’s a bit shit.
I’m in my mid 30s, dh mid 40s. We have 2 young children so don’t get as much time as we used to.
I have never been able to cum during actual intercourse, never! Which is rubbish, and it can take me ages with foreplay too. We use a vibe a lot to speed things up. We used to do a lot of foreplay but just struggle with time and energy atm.
But I don’t always want to cum before sex, I want to have long hard sex 1st, then cum. But if this happens my dh ends up cumming 1st and I’m left unsatisfied!.... Not necessarily from not cumming but from having a good time cut short. Sometimes he can cum after just 5 mins.
I know he feels bad, he said sorry last night! How can I help him last longer?
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How often do you cum in your sex life?
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PeanutbutterJamSandwich · 03/04/2020 08:05
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