DH has been on Sertraline for 4/5 months and had his dose increased about 2 months ago.
He now seems to have delayed ejaculation(checked and it is a common with use of that medication). The thing is he needs the tablets as it has helped massively with his anxiety BUT in the last month or so every time we have sex he is lasting hours. Last night after an hour of penetrative sex I had to ask him to stop - which he did and I tried to finish him off orally and by hand - it just doesn't happen.
He says that when he masturbates he can finish but hasn't been very often. He says that he is ok and that he still get pleasure from the build up and we have talked about it being psychological as he can when he is on his own. He explained it as he can feel the build up and when he is just about to it suddenly stops and he has to start the build up again. There is no problem in getting or maintaining the erection at all.
I feel awful, it is putting me off having sex because I don't want it to last hours and then him not finish at the end of it. I feel like he is telling me he is fine with it but not sure how really fine he is and feel awful drawing it to an end before he has ended but not sure what else to do now. We tried play lube and other than make it more comfortable for me having such extended penetration, didn't seem to help him much!
Don't think he is keen on going back to docs - anyone else had this problem? IS it really a problem or am I just over thinking?
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OhNoNotMonday · 07/10/2019 12:55
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