I wanted to try this out with a partner, I'm a bit self conscious about my weight as I'm a size 14 and I really don't have a clue how to start. Would he have to lift me up or is anal better? I'd love to do it like the movies but is it possible depending on size? Partner is slimmer but strong and has been with much much bigger women and would be inclined to try anything. It's just me being shy.
Face to face, standing with one back against the wall always works for us. Second best is doggy stood or knelt. Small showers are the biggest difficulty. We stayed in a hotel once where we had to take it in turns to actually stand inside the cubicle! Don't be self consious just because the light is on, and there's nothing to hide under. You look great dripping wet!