Please help me get my head around something that happened with DP. Should probably be on the Relationship board but he reads that so.....
I don't like anal. We have briefly ventured there before but it's not for me. He said he wasn't bothered really either.
A few weeks ago we were mid sex, I was on my hands and knees and I suddenly felt him enter there. I sort of gasped and said, "no that's the wrong one" he resumed normal proceedings (probably not a great idea in itself re UTI) A few moments later he was back in the "wrong hole."
I said something along the lines of " No, I, um it hurts"
He said "I just , wait I neeed to...." Then I heard him spit in his hand and rub it on me as his pushed further in.
It really hurt! And I said. " No really it hurts!
Then he stopped.
I went to the bathroom and cried. I tore a little. Hurt for about 5 days.
Next morning he said he felt mortified and that he was drunk and didn't know what he was doing. Now he says I didn't say no enough and that he isn't culpable.
Thoughts?
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Sunshineandeggshells · 29/05/2019 17:17
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