A question about anal sex

(7 Posts)
Spoddy Tue 09-Apr-19 19:13:46

NC for this. I wonder can someone help. I cant go into details suffice to say this is linked to something my DD is going through. Is it possible to have anal sex for the first time and NOT experience any sort of injuries of tears? I am sorry to be so vague.... if someone wants to PM me I am happy to explain further

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ConfusedDH Tue 09-Apr-19 19:54:56

With sufficient lubrication and a gentle touch, then absolutely yes.

Spoddy Tue 09-Apr-19 20:10:14

And without lubrication?

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ConfusedDH Tue 09-Apr-19 21:50:19

If gentle and with a smallish penis, is also possible.

StarlightLady Wed 10-Apr-19 05:44:50

If done with skill and care and plenty of lube it shouldn’t hurt. But I fail to see why anyone would want to participate without lubrication. It does not make sense to me.

Torple Wed 10-Apr-19 23:58:53

With lots of lube and patience, yes, I would say so.

Let’s just say I have never experienced any tears etc blush so it must be. Your question is confusing though. It’s unlikely that consensual anal would cause visible injuries, I’d have thought.....

MinnieMountain Sun 14-Apr-19 14:29:40

We've done it once without lub due to getting carried away and it was fine. But for the first time I would expect the man to use lube and be very careful/gentle to start with.

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