I've been married to my wife (we are both female) for 4 years. Our daughter is two and a bit. Sex was great at first, though she has a much higher drive than me. We work the same amount and the housework is pretty much equal, though she's untidy :). We are affectionate.
I've just completely gone off sex. Not gone off my wife - I love her a lot. I think. But I just don't want to touch or be touched at the moment. I'm fat, and I think that's the problem - I just don't want anybody near my fat stomach or thighs or bottom, at all.
She is a bit 'grabby' too - says she'd like stuff then tries to grab my breasts or privates with no warm up! I have to gently, or often not so gently, shove her hands away. I just can't do it like that, just watching tv or in the kitchen or whatever and she shoves my hand down there!
I'd appreciate any advice. Please be nice - I'm really struggling with this!
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pineapple95 · 02/07/2018 15:25
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