Premature ejaculation.

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WhatDoesThisMean18 Thu 24-May-18 18:29:36

I’ve been dating a lovely man for six months or so.

We finally DTD or at least tried to. Three times. But each time, he manages about 3 thrusts before he orgasms.

He is very anxious about it as, he says, it has only happened with one other partner before me. His first girlfriend 30 years ago! It never resolved and they were together 2 years. Since then he has been married, divorced and 2 long term relationships where it hasn’t been an issue.

Are we doomed to early ejaculation forever?

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Josuk Thu 24-May-18 20:02:06

Not necessarily. Not if you don’t make a big deal out of it.

I’d say - for now - just tell him it doesn’t matter. And tell him you like to give him pleasure - so do all kinds of things other than PIV....
Delay PIV as long as possible.
And - i’d even start with the first orgasm being oral, to take the edge and nervousness of.
Then, a while after - try it again.

If this isn’t an issue that he’s had all his life - it’s all in his head.
Nerves with 1st GF are understandable.
Now - he needs to learn to relax and get back to his normal self.

PussGirl Fri 25-May-18 07:37:01

Agree, sounds like he's nervous. Having him come before trying PIV is a good idea - masturbation or oral.

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