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Lubricant for male stimulation

21 replies

whatnextfred · 20/11/2017 21:24

Hi all,

So my bf is circumcised and complains about his sensitivity levels...is there a lube or similar marketed at men?

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itsbetterthanabox · 20/11/2017 21:59

You mean he’s too sensitive?
Delay condoms help with it.

whatnextfred · 20/11/2017 22:05

Nope the opposite! Says it gets a bit numb / desensitised

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cooliebrown · 21/11/2017 09:43

coconut oil is very good - is fun because it melts on your skin and is just fine should any end up in your mouth. Also cheap. I don't believe it is marketed at men though...

TheNaze73 · 21/11/2017 20:55

Coconut oil or baby oil.

itsbetterthanabox · 21/11/2017 21:59

Tingle lube

user1471548375 · 22/11/2017 07:46

Silicon based lube

Mrsjones17 · 22/11/2017 19:29

Do not use baby oil it's is not safe for sex and can lead to increased risks of BV etc. Not sure about coconut oil. Try love honey for safe sex lubricants. 'yes' is good and so is 'sylk' my DH is also less sensitive due to the same thing and we found the two above to work well

Bicarb · 23/11/2017 13:24

I really like 'JO' brand lubes - they're quite expensive but really nice and the water-based ones last for ages.

IMO stay away from Durex ones, poor quality, goes sticky quickly and the 'tingle' one should be renamed 'burn'...

whatnextfred · 23/11/2017 17:11

Thanks all Smile

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lovemylover · 25/11/2017 09:56

Superdug do a nice minty tingly one,, about £6 i think it is

lovemylover · 25/11/2017 09:56

Superdrug

NotTheFordType · 26/11/2017 10:34

I use Liquid Silk for all my clients, cut and uncut. For circumsized guys you'll need to keep applying more lube during handjob, or do a very sloppy blowjob. It's quite common IME for cut guys to need to finish themselves off by hand.

Circumcision almost always leads to reduced sensation. IMO it should only ever be offered for medical reasons (eg phimosis) and not foisted on babies/children who cannot consent to the procedure.

johnbuoy · 26/11/2017 22:21

Jo Brand lube ... I'm getting all excited just thinking about that!

AkimboLimbo · 26/11/2017 22:39

Sliquid water based is my favourite.
I get it from Lovehoney

gamerchick · 26/11/2017 22:44

I use Liquid Silk for all my clients

Man you have no idea how much I want to ask what you mean by client. But I’m not Grin

I have wondered in the past how circumcised guys have a wank. I don’t know what I would do with one missing its foreskin.

whatnextfred · 27/11/2017 17:32

I’m sort of glad it’s not uncommon. It’s my first experience with a partner being circumcised and I was starting to think it was something I was doing wrong

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SeriousSteve · 30/11/2017 02:14

Sliquid Sassy lube is great for men, it's slightly thicker than most and worth the pennies, LH sell it.

NotTheFordType · 30/11/2017 05:59

@gamerchick - I'm a sex worker.

Cut guys tend to use baby oil if left to their own devices but as a PP said its not condom safe.

Mooonie · 30/11/2017 06:21

@lovemylover I totally read that as Superdrug do a mince pie flavour lube.. 😂Grin

lovemylover · 30/11/2017 09:41

lol, no a mint flavour which has a tingly effect

LazySusan11 · 01/12/2017 19:32

For some reason I read JO brand lube and thought bloody hell Jamie Oliver really is branching out!

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