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I used to have a very high sex drive then I got pregnant. Thought my sex drive would return after having my baby but every time my partner suggest we have sex or try it on I just turn him away, I’d rather go to sleep. When we do have sex it’s good like how it used to be. Any suggestions how I can get my sex drive back or does it happen in time?
Might be worth clarifying how long it is since you had your baby. That said, if you're knackered, whether because you're still recovering from the birth and everything that goes with caring for a baby or for other reasons, it's quite normal not to be in the mood. Don't beat yourself up over it and if your partner is a decent man he will understand. If he isn't understanding well that says a lot more about him than it does about you. Look into why you're so tired and see what might be done to improve that, including him doing more to help if he isn't doing everything he can already.