Hook up sites

(12 Posts)
YesIChangedToAskThis Wed 17-May-17 16:03:27

NC, because privacy.

I'm recently single (after a good while) and I cannot be dealing with another relationship. However, I like sex, so would like to find some people to indulge with.

I'm 39, and into many kinky/non-standard/weird things.

Where do I go on the internet these days to meet open minded people who want straightforward fun.

Asking here as I trust recommendations from mumsnetters.

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LucyLocketLostIt Thu 18-May-17 07:39:44

Apparently fab swingers and fetlife.

Also, tinder! HTH

Swingingsusie Thu 18-May-17 07:46:49

Yy to fab swingers
Be safe ! Always always meet for a non obligation coffee first and say you never ever play first meet. That allows you to leave gracefully with no need to make an excuse (but you can break the rule if you feel happy!)

TDHManchester Thu 18-May-17 21:47:57

Ibet most of these websites are faked to lure gullible males into paying for memberships.

ButtonMushroomEx Fri 19-May-17 10:40:46

Try theadulthub.com OP.

I was in a similar situation a few years ago. Met some genuinely great, like minded and interesting people on there. (Of course there are the usual share of strange ones but no more than dating sites and at least their agenda is open grin)

I had some great meets and as a genuine woman you are in the minority so you're the unicorn who can take their pick of members to contact.

I can't say it was completely "no strings"'as I live with the final guy I met! 😂😂😂

But that was our choice and not our original intention.

RedComet Fri 19-May-17 17:44:58

Fetlife is packed with keyboard raiders, married men and men after really young girls imho. Shame.

NameyMcNamison Fri 19-May-17 17:50:46

Collarme (now renamed Collarspace if it's still around) worked very well for me. Fetlife was ok but you need your bullshitometer working for both of them as you would any kind of online dating site. It's totally worth the effort though - I met a couple of FWB over a course of years and then DH (although he started as a FWB).

I used to use the long-defunct informed consent site too which makes me feel very old!


YesIChangedToAskThis Sat 20-May-17 07:57:27

Thanks all

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MummyPigLovesAppleSauce Sat 20-May-17 08:13:04

Strangely normal is very similar to the old informed consent website. Not that much traffic but still worth a look

badbob1968 Sat 20-May-17 17:08:36

Swinging heaven is also a good one.

LittleBooInABox Sun 21-May-17 17:38:54

I'd avoid collar space like the plague, I love fetlife though. Depending on your end goal smile

josuk Sun 21-May-17 22:34:28

A friend i know - she was on Killing Kittens site - apparently it's not just for parties, but for meetups

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