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Spontaneous orgasms

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MaMisled · 24/04/2017 10:52

Does anyone else have spontaneous organs in their sleep? Or am I the only one?😀

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TommyandGina · 24/04/2017 11:04

Yes Blush rare though, and only when ds is away and I have nothing to worry about.

sammylady37 · 24/04/2017 18:16

Yes but (sadly) not often. I'd sometimes wake in the middle of one. And it wouldn't be down to me masturbating in my sleep as my hands would usually be nowhere near my bits, it just seems to happen without stimulation.

Zubrowka · 24/04/2017 18:22

I do fairly regularly. I put it down to me not getting laid often enough. My body decides to just get on with it itself Grin

OhtoblazeswithElvira · 24/04/2017 18:25

Not just you OP! And, as pp said, it is all hands-free. Amazing what brains can do!

I'd love to read a scientific account of this fascinating phenomenon Grin

lanbro · 24/04/2017 18:32

Only happened a handful of times in my whole life, pretty amazing!

daydream86 · 24/04/2017 18:34

only twice, when I was pregnant Confused and never since!

Girlywurly · 24/04/2017 19:47

Ohtoblazes, I once read an account of 'nocturnals' in a book called 'Sperm Wars' by Robin Baker.

Basically, he says the female orgasm is functional in reproductive terms - it is a means by which women can alter the density of their cervical mucus, which affects whether or not conception takes place. So all women orgasm - most do it through masturbation, partner sex or some combination of these. The so-called 'anorgasmic' women who can't/don't come through masturbation and/or partner sex have nocturnals in order to shed cervical mucus.

This definitely accords with my experience. I didn't start masturbating until I was 30 and before then, whenever I was single, I used to get nocturnals. Have a friend who doesn't masturbate who tells me she gets them too.

OhtoblazeswithElvira · 24/04/2017 21:59

Interesting girly. This doesn't match my experience but I am off to Google that book hoping for some happy dreams tonight

supermumofmany · 25/04/2017 11:06

I sometimes have them during a massage, it has only just started happeningHmmGrin

SheWhoDaresGins2 · 25/04/2017 11:13

Best nights kip ever in my honest opinion, nice fruity dream and wake up feeling satisfied. Wish they would happen more often Grin

Girlywurly · 25/04/2017 11:49

I absolutely love them. Find they're much more intense than the ones I give myself or receive from partners.

The only time I've ever had a hands-off one while I was awake was my first ever orgasm. The context was completely unerotic. Ridiculously, it was triggered by a very stressful exam situation!?! I didn't know what it was until a few years later when I had my first (second?) one with a boyfriend.

MaMisled · 25/04/2017 15:05

Very interesting stuff! I also had one in a very stressful situation....Whilst running away from someone! I'm just very orgasmic, I think!

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Girlywurly · 25/04/2017 16:44

Ooh, maybe it was a 'coregasm', Mislead?! I've heard that you can get those from running.

Zubrowka · 25/04/2017 16:48

I have literally never, ever been interested in running until now girly

PollytheDolly · 25/04/2017 16:49

Am I missing out? Sad never had one

MaMisled · 25/04/2017 17:31

I just Googled 'coregasm' as I'd never heard of those. No wonder everyone is hitting the gym these days!

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Cerberusia · 25/04/2017 17:35

I do and always have. I don't enjoy them though. For me, spontaneously orgasming when I'm not at all turned on mentally is just odd. I fnd them irritating tbh.

Twiterati · 25/04/2017 22:18

I have these fairly frequently and have become more frequent as I have got older. They are extremely intense and I tend to have them in the early morning while still sleeping. I think they tend to happen more if I have not had sex for a while. Also nothing to do with dreams or touching myself.

nickyso · 26/04/2017 07:08

Ah coregasm, that explains my first ever orgasm whilst rope climbing 😄

Moanyoldcow · 26/04/2017 22:47

I get these! I've never talked about it except to my husband. I'm a bit - er - 'prompt' in that department anyway. If it's gonna happen it's done in about 40 seconds Blush

Pinkgeek · 26/04/2017 22:50

I've obviously missed out too Polly Sad

saleorbouy · 27/04/2017 12:56

Suppose it's similar to males having wet dreams without any manual stimulation. Amazing what the mind can do, I never realised that females experienced these involuntary nocturnal orgasms to.

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PookieDo · 28/04/2017 17:25

I haven't had one for ages - they definitely happen more when I haven't had sex for a long time.

I got very close during childbirth which was totally weird. It was something about the pressure

NameNotANumber · 01/05/2017 08:02

I've only ever had these when pregnant too. The coregssm is enough to motivate me to do some exercise though. Grin

Stormwhale · 01/05/2017 08:08

I have them every now and again usually, but during pregnancy I would have them a few times a night. Thank goodness I wasn't put on pelvic rest or anything as I think I would have been too scared to sleep! I miss being pregnant actually, as apart from the awful bits, it was a very sensual experience for me. I could orgasm from piv alone which I have never been able to do otherwise.

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