9 years ago I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. Unfortunately the delivery was very traumatic as I required an episiotomy, which was quickly followed by haemorrhaging!
The healing process was long and painful, not helped by a Pseudomonas infection. Eventually I tried having sex again, It was very uncomfortable and scary, but did become easier. Basically since giving birth 9 years ago I have a suffered with low libido/desire and I believe that it could be related to the fact that I now associate sex with pain?! 9 years on sex is no longer painful, just uncomfortable at times. I saw a doctor on Friday to check that I am ok down below, and it appears that there may be some damage, so she has referred me to gynaecology. My question is how do I break this psychological barrier? Sex therapy isn't available on the NHS in my area and NHS psychological therapies do not work with sexual health difficulties. I have looked at relate which unfortunately is something I can't afford (£60 per hr!) has anyone got any advice?
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Psychological trauma/mental barrier following child birth resulting in poor libido
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muldoon01 · 19/02/2017 18:08
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