Love making vs F***ing

[DaddyDayCare82]

So DW and I were chatting through the size thread the other day and was interesting to see people's thoughts on the matter which got us to thinking again.

We both said that even when we want passionate slow sensual sex we always end up going for it at the end and both basically agreed we love lots of 4play with slow build up but she always preferred it slightly TMI alert harder to be able to reach orgasm.

More of another general wondering if we're alone in this or is it as I suspect NORMAL with most couples out there, it's certainly the case for a quickie but is it the case when you have time.

[Lovemusic33]

I think it depends what mood your in. I prefer a long love making session, going quite slow with a few bursts of energy, I'm happy to go for a hour or so. But then there are times where a quicky is more of a turn on and it feels kind of naughty, even more so if it's unplanned and during the day when you have 5 minutes to spare. I orgasm better going slow and being teased, I find it hard to orgasm whilst having a quicky unless I'm really excited or haven't had it a while.

[Every1lovesPatsy]

Lovemusic33 pretty much the exact same here.

Slow sensuous orgasm where you kinda zone out and listen to your body is awesome. I find fucking hilarious and usually laugh my arse off at climax. (in a good way). Both good, I prefer the long and slow approach, but sure it all depends on the mood.

[Purplebluebird]

I don't think there is so much normal and abnormal when it comes to sex (within limits). I like to sometimes "make love" however cheesy it sounds, and other times just a rough crazy fuck. Totally depends on mood, and I guess how excited you get I have been known to pull hair when excited, is that normal? I don't know, and quite frankly I don't care!

[Every1lovesPatsy]

I personally hate hair pulling...pulls me outta my happy place.

I love the man grabbing my backside and just going for it though (tmi)....jaysus, I better shut up.

[AmandaK11]

It does entirely depend on the mood and that alone means you cannot put a label on it. Each couple has their own unique ways and how you define them is irrelevant imho :)

[DaddyDayCare82]

I don't mean that mad over the top fucking is all we do but after a nice enjoyable build up the earge takes over and we like to fuck! Again each to their own I know...
My wife is the same everyonelovespasty, she said its more of a mental stimulus ha.
AmandaK11 I get that everyone is different we were just interested in others views.

[RasperryInAMelon]

I'm with you OP - all good will and intention for it to be 'nice' - but it generally ends the same way regardless!

[noego]

It all depends on the moment doesn't it? And all part of the emotional connection.

Sometimes a table ender :) Sometimes a knee trembler :) Sometimes in the morning, sometimes in the evening, sometimes whenever. Sometimes de longa maka de lurve, sometimes fucka de ass bigga time,
Sometimes in the living room, sometimes in the kitchen (especially when got hands in sink and marigolds on) sometimes in the bedroom, sometimes in the shower. Sometime da oral, sometimes justa da handsa.

And of course when the animal instincts have been triggered a good hard deep "have some of that beatch" with an arse slap and a gentle pull of the hair.

And of course the spontaneity, But also the sexting and teasing through the day to build up the anticipation.

Not withstanding the tantric meditative sex, mmmmmmmm

Mix it up babe, Just F**king love it :)

[Emboo19]

Me and my boyfriend are exactly the same Op. We can start off pretty slow and sensual, but always ends up with us going at it hard. I have to admit it's usually me encouraging it, I just don't get the same ending without!
We were a bit more reserved when I was pregnant, as it felt a bit uncomfortable at times. Even the first time after baby, I was encouraging him to go harder by the end though

[TheNaze73]

Love making is one of the most horrific phrases of all time. It's so twee.

It's hard sex or slow sex, it's fucking either way but, love making.... Vomit inducing

[user1471535250]

Noego- you are describing abuse in part of your Post. Please don't ,it has no place here or anywhere else.

[whitershadeofpale]

I'm sorry user but I totally disagree. noego may have phrased things in a different way than I would but the particulars didn't have to be abusive if within acceptable and agreed parameters between partners.

I engage in all of those things and my relationship is in no way abusive it is however mutually satisfying.

[Ineedmorelemonpledge]

Abuse???

She's talking about mutual enjoyment of different types of sex on a thread about the topic.

Same here, starts off usually with lots of teasing...foreplay and dipping in and out of different positions.

The signal is me usually turning around on my front as a gesture that he needs to go for it nice and hard.

The hair pulling is a difficult one...if I have a nice even pony tail it can feel delicious to have it pulled. If just one hair is tighter and it's grabbed it's horrible.

So usually a bit of crazed bum slapping and grabbing.

I'd recommend crossing your hands behind your back too, and getting your partner to hold them whilst shagging. '''Tis vair nice.

[hickorydickorynurseryrhyme]

I think some people's language here is just gross!

[TheNaze73]

user1471535250

You are talking shit

[Emboo19]

It's only abuse user if one of you doesn't like it or want it, surely?
As consenting adults I'm sure noego and his partner have agreed their boundaries. Yours and mine may be completely different and that's fine also. For me my boyfriend calling me a bitch would bring a instant end to sexy fun time!!

[AQuietMind]

I think some people's language here is just gross!

You do realise which topic you are on?

[DaddyDayCare82]

Sorry hickorydickorynurseryrhyme this is a topic in a sex forum and labelled Fucking! The laguage isn't going to be particularly bland!
But please don't take offence! Just don't read it.

[SteppingOnToes]

Slow and sensual can give me a clitoral orgasm, hard at the end gives a gspot orgasm at the same time which is amazing.

[hickorydickorynurseryrhyme]

Ha ha

[hangingoutattheendofmywick]

i don't think my DH and I have ever 'made love'.... it's just our style. Works for us.

[noego]

For those posters objecting to language/content.

I'm guessing you wouldn't want to be my sub then :)

[Fighterofthenightman]

Urgh.

[NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom]

Make love? Just bleaurgh So fucking twee.

[Namechangeforsex]

Sometimes we make sweet, sweet love.

Other times he spanks me till I cry then fucks me hard.

noego they might not want it but I might joke - it was a joke