Sex when theres a dramatic height difference

(23 Posts)
Kit2015 Wed 28-Dec-16 13:40:30

So the new guy I'm seeing is 6'6 I'm 5'4. Does anyone have around that in height difference? How does it effect your sex life?
We haven't had sex yet the thought equally thrills and freaks me out.

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EyeoftheStorm Wed 28-Dec-16 13:42:00

Everyone's the same lying down 😁

MaryManchego Wed 28-Dec-16 13:44:58

DH is 15" taller than me.

We survive. grin

mirokarikovo Wed 28-Dec-16 13:45:04

I think if the chemistry is there it all works out. Missionary position may not be be the best choice but there are lots of other options. I have some friends where he is 6'4" and she is 4'6" and obviously I don't ask them any questions about their sex life but there's no evidence that there are problems.

Kit2015 Wed 28-Dec-16 13:48:59

Ha well that told me. Thanks all. smile
I was more thinking about lining up etc.

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mirokarikovo Wed 28-Dec-16 14:22:18

You know you don't have to be parallel to one another, right?

gamerchick Wed 28-Dec-16 14:25:40

Just let the legs do their own thing. You'll manage.


AmberEars Wed 28-Dec-16 14:28:15

Woman on top would work well for you.

TheNaze73 Wed 28-Dec-16 18:51:46

Give It some spice & go up on him

Shylo Wed 28-Dec-16 18:59:45

It works just fine grin ....... more than fine in fact

Lining up is only an issue if you're standing, but thatS what insanely high heels are for fenvy

Ineedmorelemonpledge Wed 28-Dec-16 20:01:23

I guess standing up in the shower could be a little difficult OP?

Buy if you're petite and he's strapping maybe he could hoike you up around his waist.

Something I've sadly never been able to do.blush

Leopard12 Wed 28-Dec-16 20:04:39

Standing up is very hard to do but missionary is fine it's just your feet that don't line up! 1ft1 between us wink

ElDuderino Thu 29-Dec-16 00:34:45

Missionary might be a problem as if he's that much bigger then your head will be around his armpit - apart from the smell it's not much good for kissing, staring into each other's eyes etc. Doggy or you on top - no problem however.

missnevermind Thu 29-Dec-16 01:26:26

Dh is about 15" taller than me.
How sturdy is the dining table?

PolkadotsAndMoonbeams Thu 29-Dec-16 01:33:19

My 5 foot nothing friend with the 6'8" (!) boyfriend mentioned their 'special stepladder' once. "Oh, for kissing more easily?" I asked, "Amongst other things" she replied shock

So, get yourself a step stool? grin

Janey50 Thu 29-Dec-16 02:54:39

Can't imagine that it will be a problem unless you are trying to do it standing up. Once we're laying down,we are all the same.

DoubleCarrick Thu 29-Dec-16 02:57:50

DH is 6ft 7, sometimes a pillow is useful!

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow Thu 29-Dec-16 04:14:22

Similar here. Can't be done, our four kids were all immaculate conceptions. wink

WantToRunAgain Thu 29-Dec-16 04:18:20


RubyBluesey Fri 30-Dec-16 00:21:40

I'm 5'2 and he is 6'4... any position is fine apart from standing up!

Kit2015 Fri 30-Dec-16 11:03:45

Loving the special step stool:P thanks all.

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lovemylover Thu 10-Aug-17 14:35:38

Stand on the stais, we do im 4-11 he is 5-10

lovemylover Thu 10-Aug-17 14:36:07


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